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Realize a Bigger Paycheck by Plugging These
Money Draining Holes
Everyone has them-those incidences, circumstances, or habits
that drain them of their finances. They also have the people in
their life who just take and take but do not give.
Take Action-Get Your Life Back!
If you are having issues with money it is time for you to stop
blaming your outside circumstances. It is time to set
boundaries between you and your money and those items which
drain your pockets dry. Characteristics of Money-Draining
Holes
A money-draining hole is usually recognized by its menace-ness.
For instance, it could be a lemon vehicle that you have had to
fix every day for the last month. It could also be carelessness
with glass dishes, or it could be letting too many people
borrow your DVDs.
It could also be an item that you cannot seem to do without,
such as cigarettes, coffee, or alcohol (the definition "cannot
do without" being it is your first priority over food or other
necessities). Whatever the case may be, you need to take
action.
How to Change your Habits
The over-used saying "Old habits die hard" is so true. It is
not easy to say no to people and harmful substances. Moreover,
it often can slip your money to turn your automobile lights off
or to check your oil,However, taking proper care of your items
and being careful who you lend them do is one step to take. The
other is to seek help and accountability from those who have
conquered bad habits. By the way, if you are one who needs to
kick a habit such as smoking in order to save money you may be
overwhelmed at the cost of therapy. However, in the long run
you probably will save money. Besides, there are discounts for
those who have a limited income. You also can find free help
from peers in certain situations.
Moreover, saying no to people takes practice. If this is your
biggest obstacle to financial freedom then you may need some
assertiveness training. Read all the books, watch all the
video, and listen to all the audio you can to help you learn
what saying "no" sounds like.
Then, join a group of supportive people also learning how to
say now. After you have taken assertiveness training then you
will be better-equipped at handling guilt trips from a mom,
dad, sister, brother, husband, wife, friend, or children, or
other loved one.
Take One Day at a Time
Of course, do not be too hard on yourself if you cannot change
your entire lifestyle within a few months. The time-tested
saying "one day at a time" really does help people to
concentrate on making decisions for that day that are
healthy.
Do not worry about whether you will be able to do the same
tomorrow-just for today concentrate on making the right
decisions. Then, when you get up tomorrow concentrate on that
day. This doesn't mean you shouldn't make some plans
though.
Anticipate all Possibilities
You need a balance between taking one day at a time and being
prepared for all possibilities. If you begin to change your
habits and begin to be able to set financial boundaries you
will have more money set aside for all expenses, plus any
emergency that hopefully will not arise.
Purchasing house, car, and health insurance is also a very
important aspect of being prepared. If you change your habit
you will be surprised how much you would have available
for these precautionary expenses. Roadside assistance coverage
such as AAA also comes in handy "Just in case.”
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